| I wonder why ADHD gets singled out so much. If I look at the suggestions that would help people with ADHD, then I see suggestions that would help lots of people. Eg. not being reprimanded for being late when it has no consequences would help everyone. Good calendar software also helps everyone. There are lots of people who are struggling with the demands of the workplace -- in fact, I'm not sure I know anyone who doesn't struggle with something. I wonder why employers need a "Neurodiversity program" to make their workplaces less toxic. Maybe I'm missing something, but are there any specific affordances for Neurodiverse people that wouldn't also help everyone else? |
Tell a neurotypical to use a calendar, and they'll just do it.
Tell someone with ADHD to use a calendar, and they'll spend 4 hours shopping for the perfect one, then forget to check it, forget to put things in it, forget to carry it with them etc. You'll say "why can't you just keep a stupid calendar" and they'll say "the calendar doesn't work".
"Use a calendar" is a piece of advice that works for neurotypicals, but not for people with ADHD.
Conversely, "have a fidget toy for every single conversation you have with anyone ever" will probably not help a neurotypical person much, yet that's something I'd advise to anyone with ADHD. You guys also probably don't need a physical list of things to do for fun, because you have brains good enough to remember. Ask me what I like to do in my spare time and I'll be like "hmmmm what even is time?".
I find Nir Eyal has tons of great advice that benefits both camps.