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by Red_Tarsius
4103 days ago
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I'm a very vengeful guy. If you have wronged me years ago I'd still bear grudges and find serious ways to give back. It's my weakness and it's not healthy. You should let it go. Think about it: how much time and money would you waste in a legal action? Is it worth the stress and commitment? It's not. IMHO don't feed the mob with public shaming. It's a scar, not an open wound and you should simply warn other freelancers from joining his company. It's the difference between being unprofessional and acting as a good mentor. > I foolishly did not draft a formal contract -- a mistake I never made again... This is a lesson every freelancer I met learns the hard way. |
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("I'm a very vengeful guy"). Would you say you're a psychopath? [EDIT: this is an honest question out of curiosity, not an accusation.]
What about other people - do you think hey hold grudges for years against you, too? Wouldn't it suck if something bad that serious happened to you, a major setback, but it was because of some guy you have never thought about thought he was "givign back" something against some way he thought you wronged him years ago? Even though you did not in fact have this intention?
What I'm saying is that I know basically no one who just does things out of spite. So if you feel that you were personally wronged, don't you think you could be misinterpreting, and doling out punishment against people who haven't thought about you since (or have any reason to) but who's next interaction with you is a shit sandwich for no reason?
Just curious here.