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by RK 4311 days ago
My advisor in grad school once gave the following advice algorithm for making a decision:

1. Flip a coin.

2. If the result of the coin flip makes you hesitate at all, you know that was the choice you didn't really like anyway. Go with the other choice.

3 comments

The problem is that in any decision difficult enough to make you resort to a coin flip, most likely either coin flip result will make you hesitate.
I agree but I wouldn't take it too literally. The coin flip isn't binding but it can be fascinatingly revealing about your own opinions.

I see it as a way to actualise the consequences of the choice and cut through layers of intellectual abstraction. In some respects its a tool to let you engage emotional thinking to help make better decisions. On the flip, it can suddenly trigger a feeling of loss and regret. Our fundamental beliefs can be strangely out of reach when we think too hard.

A similar tool is just explaining your decision to another. I can get a flush of emotion e.g. embarrassment or shame, that you don't get when you just cogitate alone. Pretty useful for tough design decisions e.g. midway through explaining a particularly clever idea I find myself apologising... its time to rethink things!

Also if both decisions make you hesitate, it suggests that costs/benefits of both of them cancel each other out, so you may as well stop hesitating and go with what the coin tells you.
Actually, the real point of flipping a coin is that during the brief lapse of time during which the piece is in the air, you will know what's the choice you prefer. The result doesn't matter.
This is what I've always done! I agree with what another poster said about how revealing it can be -- you suddenly see yourself in the position where the decision had actually gone a certain way and you have to deal with the consequences. People always look at me funny when I explain it to them, though.
I have always used the variant where, if I do not make up my mind before the coin lands, I do what the coin says.