| I'm thinking about my next software development job. I think I might find a developer in a similar job in a company, cold-email them, and ask a few questions about what it's really like to work there. (I'll include a link to my personal site so that they understand I'm worth responding to.) I'll be more comfortable talking to them rather applying for a job directly which makes me seem needy. They'll probably be more honest and open than a hiring manager. And if it goes well, they may pass on my resume. I'm surprised that I haven't heard this done more often. Have you tried this? Does it work for you? Or does it seem rude? |
If we had met through friends or at a meetup, I'd have been happy to talk to you much more openly about my job and the workplace.
The best developers I know have contacts all over town. They occasionally go along to meetups and user-groups on things they are interested in - not in a cynical way, they just enjoy chatting to like-minded folk and learning.
I would suggest you start doing the same, with the warnings about appearing desperate as mentioned in jonnathanson's comment. You don't have to sacrifice your personal/family life, just go along to a meetup on some technology/language/topic of interest once or twice a month, be friendly and personable, swap details with any like-minded people and stay in touch with them on occasion.