[theorique]

Would you consider it sexist if someone started a developer list only for people that identify as male? Would you consider it racist if white people started a conference where only white people could attend?

From the perspective of contemporary social justice theory, such things would indeed be considered sexist and/or racist because they are used to support privilege, whereas a women-only context or Black-only context would be used to deconstruct privilege.

(Some people consider this standpoint is completely insane, while others consider it a self-evident truth.)

[tiredofcareer]

You rephrased my comment's discussion of privilege and wrote it back to me. The parenthetical is what I'm asking about.

[theorique]

My personal answer would depend on whether I were talking candidly with my buddies at the bar, or taking a mandatory seminar in order to get rubber stamped for "diversity education" for my HR file.

[tiredofcareer]

I'm intrigued that you'd give a different answer for each scenario.

[theorique]

You need to know your audience, and know what they are prepared to hear. No sense in risking your career over a meaningless political point.