[theorique]

My personal answer would depend on whether I were talking candidly with my buddies at the bar, or taking a mandatory seminar in order to get rubber stamped for "diversity education" for my HR file.

[tiredofcareer]

I'm intrigued that you'd give a different answer for each scenario.

[theorique]

You need to know your audience, and know what they are prepared to hear. No sense in risking your career over a meaningless political point.