[Brian_K_White]

You may want to read this comment again and really evaluate it as if you didn't write it. Maybe shop it around. Ask your wife, or better some random people with the names scrubbed so they don't know it's you, to tell you who is the asshole and exactly why. What about the statement exposes the asshole by it's own self-contained internal logic? I know, it doesn't matter what 9 out of 10 say, even if they all say the same thing and point out the same reasons, all that proves is "it has proven to be a bad assumption" that everyone else isn't an idiot eh?

Man that's convenient. Why didn't I ever think of that genius way to resolve everything? Oh right, duh.

[samatman]

You may want to read this comment again and really evaluate it as if you didn't write it. Maybe shop it around. Ask your wife, or better some random people with the names scrubbed so they don't know it's you, to tell you who is the asshole and exactly why.

[Brian_K_White]

"The one that was wrong about soimething, and then when shown, doubled down and blamed everyone else."

"The one than said everyone else disappoints them, and doing that while being in error themselves is just an extra shovel full."

I'll cop to my own smarminess, but that came later, as reaction, not an action.