[samatman]

You may want to read this comment again and really evaluate it as if you didn't write it. Maybe shop it around. Ask your wife, or better some random people with the names scrubbed so they don't know it's you, to tell you who is the asshole and exactly why.

[Brian_K_White]

"The one that was wrong about soimething, and then when shown, doubled down and blamed everyone else."

"The one than said everyone else disappoints them, and doing that while being in error themselves is just an extra shovel full."

I'll cop to my own smarminess, but that came later, as reaction, not an action.