[interloxia]

Selfless effort. Be willing to ask for help with something, anything, even if you don't need it.

I can cut down a tree. But it's fun with friends.

I can do bad home renno but it's an in to keeping up with friends with a quick photo of the latest win/fail on signal /whatever floats your boat.

Because they're friends they might just say yes.

It's OK to ask them how they're going. Sometimes they will reply sometimes not and that's OK too.

[dingaling]

> It's OK to ask them how they're going

The point of enlightenment is when you realise they never ask you that.

[oh_nice_marmot]

Yeah, how do you deal with that?

[interloxia]

Further enlightenment that never isn't the only answer even if it feels that way. People change and new friends can be made.

It helps to know who you are, what you want, and what you can do about it.