[dingaling]

> It's OK to ask them how they're going

The point of enlightenment is when you realise they never ask you that.

[oh_nice_marmot]

Yeah, how do you deal with that?

[interloxia]

Further enlightenment that never isn't the only answer even if it feels that way. People change and new friends can be made.

It helps to know who you are, what you want, and what you can do about it.