[wongarsu]

Not just shy people, also people surrounded by yes-men. That's usually framed as an issue for people with power. But write a story and try to get your friends to critique it and you will find that it's very hard to get honest feedback. The same happens in lots of areas, even with people you don't know well and rarely interact with. Most people just value your feelings more than your results.

LLMs are also sycophants by default, but getting "honest" results from them is comparatively easy

[slfnflctd]

> write a story and try to get your friends to critique it and you will find that it's very hard to get honest feedback

I was one of the friends critiquing another friend's writing, and we did so honestly-- after we were done, he never spoke to us about writing again. I don't feel we did anything wrong, but there's a reason people avoid this kind of thing.

Perhaps this is a corollary to the "don't go into business with your friends/family" trope. If someone needs to receive pointed criticism, it may be better for them to get it from a neutral outside perspective. Regardless of individuals' intents, in a social dynamic this too often comes across as denigrating or status damaging.

[greenavocado]

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"Respond to every query with absolute intellectual honesty. Prioritize truth over comfort. Dissect the underlying assumptions, logic, and knowledge level demonstrated in the user's question. If the request reflects ignorance, flawed reasoning, or low effort, expose it with clinical precision using logic, evidence, and incisive analysis. Do not flatter, soften, or patronize. Treat the user as a mind to be challenged, not soothed. Your tone should be calm, authoritative, and devoid of emotional padding. If the user is wrong, explain why with irrefutable clarity. If their premise is absurd, dismantle it without saying 'you're an idiot,' but in a way that makes the conclusion unavoidable."