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by p_ing 396 days ago
Read a book! Would you/do you enjoy any specific genres?

How much do you exercise? Even if you walk around the block, that's awesome. Try to challenge yourself if you don't, start with 1 mile, then 2, etc. to the point where you feel it's as far as you can go.

I wouldn't get rid of your laptop since you need it for job hunting, but you could get a dumb phone.

What other hobbies do you have? If none, what kind of facilities/3rd places are near you to facilitate hobbies? Are you rural, suburban, or urban?

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I love reading and running actually, but when I am in this procrastination mode I can’t push myself to even start reading or go outside. I live in the city.
Therapist to start discussions about depression and porn addiction. As for engaging in new things, it's hard to say without knowing what city and I don't suggest saying which here, but maybe find the subreddit for your city and asking for ideas.
Thanks. It does not feel like depression as I had a few and they felt different. But definitely related to the lack of goals and meanings.
Depression doesn't mean 'sad' per se. Disengagement, lack of interest, etc. still fall into the window of depression. Overuse of addictive things (porn, drugs, alcohol) are also a sign.

Even if it is for a single session, I'd suggest talking to a professional therapist. If they're local, they even may have great ideas on things you may enjoy out of the house/connecting to other human beings in person. They may also suggest medications; I strongly suggest if you go the med route to see a psychiatrist over a primary care physician; psychiatrists simply know their stuff better/can monitor you more effectively.