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by davidw 792 days ago
A city with a park nearby where your kids will actually meet other kids to play with?

That's what life was like back when we lived in Italy a few years ago. It was pretty good in a lot of ways!

When we moved here to Oregon, we landed in a rental with a big, beautiful back yard that didn't see much use.

"Kids don't need a big yard to play, they need other kids" - and living in a denser area provides more kids.

That's not to say no one should have a yard or anything, just that it's really not all that it's cracked up to be.

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> A city with a park nearby where your kids will actually meet other kids to play with?

Have you been to San Francisco? Addicts and homeless take over all parks. While I emphatize with their difficult situation, I don't want my child exposed to that.

> "Kids don't need a big yard to play, they need other kids" - and living in a denser area provides more kids.

Out here in suburbs,lots of kids (since most families with kids move to the suburbs) and many parks and none of the problems of a dense city.

As a 20-something I want(ed) to live in a dense city for the parties & people & bars. As a parent of a child, I want to be as far as possible from a dense city.

> Have you been to San Francisco? Addicts and homeless take over all parks.

The high amount of homelessness may have something to do with the housing shortage.