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Find a mix of job and COL that allow you to save a little bit. This isn't rocket surgery here, friend. If your current rent eats all your income, move to a cheaper place and/or find a better job. I was born in abject poverty. I went to public school and state colleges. I made money in TN, GA, AL, and TX before settling in northern CA. This area is my dream location and it took nearly 2 decades of planning and effort out of college to prepare to buy and settle here in a financially stable way. San Fransisco isn't the only city available to US citizens. If you can't save in a high COL location, move to a lower COL location so you can save. Then, when you've saved enough, move back to a higher COL area. This idea that you're stuck in some expensive geography and can't do anything about it is plain silly. I made most of my moves with less than $1,000 in the bank and plenty of credit card debt. After moving a dozen times across nearly half a dozen states, today I own a home in the Bay Area outright, have zero debt, and do what I like with my time and I'm not yet 50. If I would have left college for the Bay Area immediately, none of that could have happened. It took planning and stages and moving all around the country (and living in the cheap South) but it was doable and is doable now for anyone that wants to make the effort. Yeah, boomers had it a lot easier, but so what. That's history. That was what they got for living in a high tax high investment era and we get what 20 years of Reagan and Clinton gave us, trickle down, so we deal with it. "I want to live in SF or NYC out of college and own a home because boomers could do that" is bullshit. There's a substantial generation between you and boomers, my generation, X, that saw we weren't gonna have it as easy as the boomers and we didn't complain, we changed tactics and adapted to the environment. We figured out by going to state schools, busting our humps at a half a dozen different jobs including ones with serious physical labor that might even cost you a finger, being illing to live in less than ideal places for years or even decades, could let us settle into something better in middle age. California costs about 2.5 months more salary to live in than the national average and about 4 months of salary more than truly affordable states. If you can increase your savings by 2.5-4 months of take home all for the price of a bus ticket and a few days of hotel stay to find a place to rent in a more appropriate COL location, you can save for a house, even a house in a high COL location, no problem. You probably cannot save for a high COL location house living in a top 3 COL state while trying to do so. |
Moving costs thousands. Finding a better job is good advice but often requires investment in yourself (education costs money).
How could anyone move to a lower COL area for less than $1000? A security deposit and first month's rent will be more than that almost anywhere you can "find a better job". And that's ignoring the cost to move your things. (But maybe you didn't have any things or expect someone to sell/start over?)
It's clear your intentions here are good but you're giving poor advice. You're out of touch.