[ssnri]

I enjoyed that book. After I read it I made my bio on dating apps: “Active, creative, hairy; but enough about Portia spiders.”

My question is: how successful do you think that’s been for me as a straight man?

[gryn]

Depends on your metric for success I guess.

- number of matches ? Probably not. - number of fellow fans ? Probably.

[ryanblakeley]

Is sexual cannibalism off the table?

[snapcaster]

It depends on how physically attractive you are obviously, that variable confounds everything people say about dating apps and what works or doesn't

[ssnri]

I go to yoga studios and the instructors hit on me.

Still have a mostly shit time with apps. Not zero dates, but going out and doing things in the real world is a much better strategy.

Being attractive is probably enough for women, not men though.

[lukan]

"Being attractive is probably enough for women, not men though. "

That is valid only for a certain subset of humanity.

[Jemaclus]

You said "book" (singular), and I just wanted to let you know it's actually a trilogy, so there are more if you want to read them!

[dmix]

I'm not sure talking about hairy spiders in your opening sentence will work wonders with women.

[Loughla]

It won't work until it works really well with one specific woman.

[AlecSchueler]

I'm not sure women are as homogeneous as you're suggesting.

[ssnri]

I guess I’ll have to fall back on my oversized genitals

[tomcam]

Can't unsee this