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by heliostatic
5196 days ago
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I think you're correct that the best solution is to increase the number of women in technology. However, as members of that community today, you and I and our male friends can call out the creepy dudes making inappropriate remarks 100% of the time we hear them. Creating an environment where people feel comfortable doesn't have to mean getting rid of all bad actors; it can be enough to make it clear that bad actors are found universally unacceptable. |
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These people tend not to just be sexist; they bully their male workers as well - crude remarks for example, put downs, superior attitudes.
I once had a female (client) lean over the desk to me, with a low cut blouse, and say "My cleavage intimidates you doesn't it".
I suggest that, as this blogger noted, the minority of creeps & bullies aren't really the problem. You can deal with them a lot more easily by moving on, firing them, refusing their custom - etc.
The issue is the sort of subtle remarks that the people making them don't realise are upsetting. They are not unlike-able, unlike bullies, just a bit clueless.
And fixing this is not easy, because you might really get on with the guys in your office, just wish they'd stop commenting on your ass!