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Creeps are a part of every industry; they are more aptly described as "Bullies" - and can be both male and female (though I admit the male, sexist, bully is very prevalent in our industry). These people tend not to just be sexist; they bully their male workers as well - crude remarks for example, put downs, superior attitudes. I once had a female (client) lean over the desk to me, with a low cut blouse, and say "My cleavage intimidates you doesn't it". I suggest that, as this blogger noted, the minority of creeps & bullies aren't really the problem. You can deal with them a lot more easily by moving on, firing them, refusing their custom - etc. The issue is the sort of subtle remarks that the people making them don't realise are upsetting. They are not unlike-able, unlike bullies, just a bit clueless. And fixing this is not easy, because you might really get on with the guys in your office, just wish they'd stop commenting on your ass! |
Also agree about side comments - it is not easy to stop those. That's why it is important to understand each of those individuals and find a way to deal with each one. No need to be a hardass to the person, just need to punish specific actions.