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by rugpuller 5299 days ago
I believe there aren't really any problems, just he doesn't have a lot of free time with a full time job and family; but you're right, I may not be aware of the full picture here.

I'm honestly not interested in screwing the guy, we've both (mentally) invested in this project even if he hasn't contributed significantly to the actual work itself. An honest sit-down is definitely the way to go.
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ergo14 5299 days ago
Maybe there aren't any problems - but your partner may believe things are as they should be. Because you have not expressed your concerns. The first thing is to talk about, you can always pull Zuckenberg on him later. But without this step you will never know if you were right or wrong.
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rugpuller 5299 days ago
You are, of course, correct. I've been a bit cowardly so far, but that needs to change; I'll talk to him and see if we can't work things out. At the very least, I should make him aware I'm feeling like this.
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ergo14 5299 days ago
Well the confrontation can't be avoided forever. It's best if you do this when things can be fixed.

"I'll talk to him and see if we can't work things out" That is a dangerous freudian slip there.

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