[ergo14]

Maybe there aren't any problems - but your partner may believe things are as they should be. Because you have not expressed your concerns. The first thing is to talk about, you can always pull Zuckenberg on him later. But without this step you will never know if you were right or wrong.

[rugpuller]

You are, of course, correct. I've been a bit cowardly so far, but that needs to change; I'll talk to him and see if we can't work things out. At the very least, I should make him aware I'm feeling like this.

[ergo14]

Well the confrontation can't be avoided forever. It's best if you do this when things can be fixed.

"I'll talk to him and see if we can't work things out" That is a dangerous freudian slip there.