In an act of slight contrarianism, i would add another one to the list: trying way too hard to be the complete opposite of a "self-centered narcissistic control-freak".
It depends if they're deficient in terms of:
- Not protecting the team from unreasonable demands and/or blame from the organization
- Doesn't ensure the work environment stays civilized for all
- Doesn't lead or set an example where necessary
There are genuinely nice, civilized, respectable managers who aren't "trying too hard".
There are genuinely nice, civilized, respectable managers who aren't "trying too hard".