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by metadat 1443 days ago
Keeping abusive / toxic people in my life. Nothing has opened the door to more happiness, fulfillment, and better things than learning to identify and remove them from my personal sphere.
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How did you learn to identify such people? I think I have a hard time evaluating these things personally, I don't find anyone abusive/toxic. Maybe I'm just lucky?
I started with a book called "Safe People", a short, easy read which teaches both how to be a safe person and identify unsafe people and behaviors.

https://www.amazon.com/Safe-People-Relationships-Avoid-Those...

This is an excellent recommendation, thank you for putting it forth.