[Arrezz]

How did you learn to identify such people? I think I have a hard time evaluating these things personally, I don't find anyone abusive/toxic. Maybe I'm just lucky?

[metadat]

I started with a book called "Safe People", a short, easy read which teaches both how to be a safe person and identify unsafe people and behaviors.

https://www.amazon.com/Safe-People-Relationships-Avoid-Those...

[toomuchtodo]

This is an excellent recommendation, thank you for putting it forth.