[rootsudo]

The more longer you pretend, the more rights she has to your future income and alimony.

But What's the problem? You don't want kids, and she said she isn't sure.

The more longer you stay together and let her complete her studies, her biological clock ticks and women do have issues having kids later in life.

You just don't like being married? Not being together?

More for reddit, but, just curious in general.

[throwaway020222]

It's the first time I've been married so I didn't know what to expect. Even though we married last year, we've been living together for a few years now.

But it's hell for me, I want freedom, I want time, I don't want to guess how she feels or what she needs all the time. She says I should buy her flowers and that kind of stuff more often but doing it feels like a chore to me.

5 years ago I also wasn't sure if I wanted to be a parent or not, but I was more leaning towards the "yes". I think having a kid would be a higher goal that could motivate me to stay together with my wife. After deciding I don't want kids (with any woman) my long term relationship/marriage just crumbled like a deck of cards.