>Whish I knew what the proper name for it is,
Possibly these:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere_ownership_effect
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endowment_effect
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choice-supportive_bias
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IKEA_effect
The more costly it is to make the wrong choice, the more is invested into rationalising the decision, the stronger the bias.
The more costly it is to make the wrong choice, the more is invested into rationalising the decision, the stronger the bias.