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Senior homes and assisted living centers are a national disgrace. They are entirely about profit maximization (what business isn’t?), and as such hire people at the exact minimum and have well over 100% yearly turnover. The staff commonly steal from residents, and the management do not care. They’d rather retain a larcenous pig who barely executes her duties than have to go back and scrape the barrel for a replacement. The residents are often lonely, in awful health, overlooked by their families, and spend all day watching television. Many of them are verbally abusive towards the staff. Elderly people should live with their families. The ones with no families to care for them should be in nonprofit, closely regulated facilities with well-paid staff. And it’s time to stop spending $500K on medical care just so an 88 year old can make it to 89. Whoever spread that “death panels” meme should be forced to write America a check for five hundred billion dollars. |
Spoken with the confidence of someone who has never had to care for an elderly relative who was in both mental and physical decline. In any case it is a deeply personal decision without a definitive right or wrong answer. After seeing my Aunt try to care for my grandmother for years only for it to negatively effect their relationship because of her dementia I wouldn't blame anyone for choosing a care facility.
I know people who were so effected by their experience of caring for an elderly relative that they checked themselves into a senior living community in their 50's so their kids would never have to feel like they needed to do the same for them.