[zoshi]

I'm not going to make choices for them. They should make their own choices, and I'm here to provide guidance and support.

[imagineerschool]

Thank you for speaking up! You're exactly the sort of thinking parent I'm looking for! I'd love the chance to have a conversation with you - please contact me at petroff.ryan at gmail - thank you again!

[aristofun]

What an irresponsible behaviour.

Kids by definition require parents to take responsibility for choices among other things.

If kids are to make their own choices - they are not kids anymore.

[zoshi]

The question was about educational choices.

Of course I taught my child to read and write. Beyond that, I am not forcing them to get up at 7am and memorize what other adults want them to all day every day. My child can learn about whatever interests him. I pay attention to what he is doing and provide advice, guidance, resources.

For example, if tomorrow I learn that my son has taken an interest in playing guitar, I will encourage him to take lessons, and provide what he needs to do that. I may expose him to music theory or other things I think align with his interests.

I will try and encourage him to cultivate skills and interests, but it is up to him what he wants to do.

[aristofun]

I see your point and generally agree.

But in the end of the day - its up to a parent to make some critical decisions while kid is just a kid.

[m33k44]

> They should make their own choices

From what age onwards? And what should they do for choices before that age?

[luckman212]

I wish you were my dad.