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by aristofun 1887 days ago
What an irresponsible behaviour.

Kids by definition require parents to take responsibility for choices among other things.

If kids are to make their own choices - they are not kids anymore.

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The question was about educational choices.

Of course I taught my child to read and write. Beyond that, I am not forcing them to get up at 7am and memorize what other adults want them to all day every day. My child can learn about whatever interests him. I pay attention to what he is doing and provide advice, guidance, resources.

For example, if tomorrow I learn that my son has taken an interest in playing guitar, I will encourage him to take lessons, and provide what he needs to do that. I may expose him to music theory or other things I think align with his interests.

I will try and encourage him to cultivate skills and interests, but it is up to him what he wants to do.

I see your point and generally agree.

But in the end of the day - its up to a parent to make some critical decisions while kid is just a kid.