| > Sounds like you had a checklist/recipe for life and you went with it. Yep, tried to follow a mix of passion and checklists. > Do whatever. love this. This is also the problem itself. I can do anything. But what will I miss out if I do x instead of y? > Learn an instrument, buy a motorcycle, make a painting, become a scuba instructor, run a marathon, try drugs, move to another country, sit at a park/cafe and talk with people - you get the picture. The instrument sounds good. I. did run a marathon, bought a motorcycle (and a sailboat), I can't paint, lived in 6 countries, drugs scary the shit out of me after teenage THC-related panic attacks. Give me more. > You'll find something that clicks, just get out of your checklist view of life. Hahaha, some friend call me the "list man"... they also made a drawing of me holding a checklist at my wedding : |
Be here and now. Talk to people you normally wouldn't talk to. Do things without needing justifications. Be an absolute clown for a day, or just do something really crazy (ie. involuntarily funny) without justifying it to anybody. Notice what piques your curiosity and engagement, and pursue some whims of fancy. Notice variations of feelings and how they play with the rest of mind-body system and vica versa.