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by idlewords 2647 days ago
After running a thing by myself for nearly ten years, I would say the most important factor is anxiety management. People experience anxiety very differently, so it's hard to give advice, but without some way of dealing with and reducing this stress it is not possible to run a solo business for a sustained period of time.

Some examples of what can make you anxious working solo:

* A "lumpy" income stream that is hard to model or predict

* The feeling of being on call 24/7

* Having to make a large capital outlay or hire an expensive professional like a lawyer

* Seeing a well-funded competitor appear and start hiring

Anxiety is an odd meta-problem in that if you worry about it, you just make it worse, but some strategy for long-term coping is necessary.

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Not just for solo founders!

I remember after leaving a full-time job for the company we started in 2005 being really freaked out by the idea that I didn't really ever have vacations or sick days or any kind of paid time off, since it was all coming out of my pocket. It was a freaky feeling.

We'd have weekly partner calls, and we'd get to the part where we'd run through the pipeline and cash flow situation, and I'd hold the phone away from my face so I wouldn't hear any of it, which did not overly endear me to my partners.

Also: to this day, neither Jeremy nor Dave can call me on the phone without me having a small panic attack (a post-traumatic reaction to several business dramas we had); it's almost exactly the feeling you get when a family member calls at 1AM. Jeremy I understand, because we still work together, but Dave called me a few months ago, and I freaked right the fuck out.

Yeah this seems like the big important entrepreneurial essay someone needs to write. It's a much bigger deal than most of the advice you get about starting a company.

> anxiety management

This.

I am a solo founder and anxiety begins to be a major problem for me (starts to result in observable real-life issues like insomnia). I've just realized that I need to find a way to deal with it, or there could be trouble ahead.

Stress and anxiety are there even if your business is doing "well" (as in, profitable and growing). There is always more work than you can handle, you are always afraid of a bigger competitor ruining things for you, and you always worry that customers will suddenly start churning one day.

I've been looking for a group of solo-entrepreneurs to exchange experiences. This article resonated with me. It's helpful to even know that others experience the same problems.

I cannot upvote this enough. I've found that exercise helps; both from being healthier but also because I'm so tired I sleep through the night instead of waking up and being unable to get back to sleep.

While running I focus on form as a way of meditation. Eventually my mind will wander onto other topics; being unable to actually put my hands onto a keyword or whiteboard helps.

Actually we are running a Whatsapp group for solo-entrepreneurs. We have video-calls from time to time and share milestones or problems.

I won't share the group link here, as it would probably overwhelm us. But if you do want to join, drop me a short email to group868@vlx.cc introducing your startup and I'll send you the intro document.

The constant stress can definitely wear someone down if they don't have any proper outlets.

I had clear skin my entire life until I started to develop severe cystic acne as a 32 year old adult (after about 6 months of non-stop work into my startup). Once I started dialing things back, my skin got way better.

I’m dealing with this right now. There just needs to be a single anxious thought and I’ll be crippled with the fear of failure - what if it doesn’t workout, what if this, what if that - and consequently my productivity gets destroyed.
How did it go with the competitor? Look on the bright side, at least a partner didn't steal your IP and go on to compete. I have seen that happen to at least 3 people I know fairly well irl.
I bought them
Do not try to compete with pinboard!
Uh, or do and get an exit? :)
For $35K.
del.icio.us?
Sometimes I think bookmarking in pointless. I have way too many ~10k and to find the right one I go back to googling. Now If I had a way to capture my entire browsing history it would be interesting I guess.
This is a huge thing! I haven't seen it broken down like this before. Basically a checklist on how I felt for the last ten years. Jeez, BUSTED!
This is so on the money.