[joefranklinsrs]

You make compelling arguments. For me, a house isn't an investment but it's a place where I house my family. (sure, houses in silicon valley have gone up 1.5-2X in a few years. However, stocks have gone up 2-10X). If you're young, there's no point of getting a house. If you are close to have a family, one of the most important thing is KEEPING your job. If you are remote in Pittsburg, and you have to get a new job, it might take a few months of interviewing and flying in for interviews to find a remote job that pays your old salary. Do you want to risk that even to your family? most likely you wouldn't. You have 18 years of mortgage and college tuitions to pay for.

[WillEngler]

Agreed on most of what you're saying here.

> For me, a house isn't an investment but it's a place where I house my family.

I really want to view the world this way :) I wish housing were a boring commodity that depreciates in value over time like a car. With prices being what they are, I am _forced_ to think of housing as an investment because of how much of my net worth will be tied up in it.

[fro0116]

Exactly this.

A house _is_ an investment, regardless of how someone wants to think about it.

Buying a house involves a significant opportunity cost over renting since it requires locking up capital (a down payment, or the entire value of the house if buying in cash) in an illiquid asset that could have been invested in liquid assets like stocks (that have historically performed better than real estate over longer time horizons for most housing markets, and often more than makes up for the fixed costs of renting once maintenance costs, taxes, and mortgage interest rates are taken into account, but that's only tangential to the point I'm trying to make).

Also, most people buy their houses on mortgages, so they're investing with 5-10x leverage over the down payment and paying interest for that leverage. This level of leverage would be considered outright insane for any other long term investment, but most people won't even think twice before locking a large majority of their net worth behind a down payment. This puts their financial well-being at the mercy of the whims of the local real estate market due to the 5-10x amplified gains/losses, and practically removes their ability to meaningfully diversify and de-risk their portfolio.

Now of course I'm not saying buying a house can never make sense financially or otherwise, just that refusing to think of it as an investment can be dangerous because it can blind you to the nuanced risk/reward calculations involved in one of the most impactful financial decisions you can make in your lifetime.

For myself, the right time to buy a house would likely have to be when I've saved up enough money that the upfront investment for the purchase of the house is about 30% of my net worth if I'm buying with cash, or less than 10% of my net worth if I'm buying with a mortgage, to counteract the extra exposure to real-estate from the 5-10x leverage. That may mean that the time to buy a house in the Bay Area may never come for me, but I'm perfectly fine with that because the alternative would compromise my ability to keep my investments reasonably liquid and diversified, which could prove to be disastrous in these uncertain financial times ahead of us.

[ethbro]

Small point: the risk calculus changes a bit if you buy after housing market deleveraging (e.g. 2009).

You can never know when things are over-valued, but you can get a good sense when things are undervalued.

And since the housing market has both momentum (nearby sales affect comps, more inventory than sales, some substitutability) and adjusts slowly, there's time to buy after it bottoms.

Stock market timing doesn't work for many reasons, but a lot of those don't hold for the real estate market.

[closeparen]

Liquidity also plummets during a deleveraging. Homeowners wait for the recovery to sell; lenders wait for the recovery to underwrite. Home values crossing into your price range doesn't mean you can actually buy one, unless it's for cash at a foreclosure auction.