I'm curious what percentage of that salary goes to pay for housing. I don't think a higher salary makes sense if the other expenses are proportionally higher.
So here's the thing, yes your percentage might be higher. But what's left over is in absolute terms huge. For example, if you have an extra $3000 a month after paying for housing, that's pretty powerful even if you are paying 40% for housing. Sure in a different place you might be at 30% but your post-pay is like $1000. So net wise you're 3x better even with a "worse" rent percentage.