| The standard story about measurement/observation and quantum collapse is not the only interpretation of the available data. There are, broadly, three kinds of interpretations of what's 'really' going on behind the scenes: 1. Collapse - The world exists in an indeterminate state until observation occurs, when the world collapses into one a single determinate state. The probabilities of quantum mechanics map onto the the different parts of the unobserved indeterminate state. 2. Many Worlds - Quantum phenomena cause the world the branch into multiple worlds. The probabilities of quantum mechanics represent the 'share' of reality that branches in each direction. 3. Hidden variables - The probabilities of quantum mechanics are artifacts of our inability to know all the relevant variables. Measurement necessarily involves causal contact, and causal contact will always disturb some of the relevant variables in unpredictable ways. It would be cool if we could observe what goes on when measurement occurs, but to do that would require measurement! So we're stuck with hidden variables. The public tends to hear the collapse interpretation most often. Physicists tend to like the many worlds interpretations. Philosophers of science tend to like the hidden variables interpretation, because the other options require an incoherent metaphysics. (I'm a Philosophy PhD student.) People say that the hidden variables interpretation is ruled out on experimental grounds, but this is demonstrably false. Experimental data shows that hidden variables, if they exist, violate locality: Locality - Causal interaction is a local phenomena. No action at a distance. So long as you're willing to abandon locality, hidden variables can work. Given that the other two interpretations posit equally weird things, abandoning locality won't seem so weird. For more on this, see Tim Maudlin's excellent paper, "Three Measurement Problems" https://www.academia.edu/32885328/Three_measurement_problems |
As a very lose analogy, the world is "normal" ( no collapsing or multiple universes or anything). It's simply that every particle leaves a "wake" just like a boat on a lake. That's it.
Classical interaction is two boats interacting with each other (crashing into each other, or one pushing the other, or pulling the other like a tugboat). And the only way two boats can affect each other is directly.
Quantum interactions are "wakes"/"waves" in the water interacting with boats. One boat can be far enough away, but if it's big enough it's wake can move your boat. This as you'd imagine happens more to smaller lighter boats. And as waves push small boats around they affect where a boat will be when you look to measure them. (Measurements also create a wake)
Finally a boat's wake can interfere with another boat's wake. And that can be constructive or destructive interference just like two waves in the water can cancel each other out. Finally a boat on the other side of the lake can affect your boat via it's wake, meaning interactions aren't strictly "local".
It's that simple (more or less), it explains all the predictions of QM and yet it's taking forever for Copenhagen to die off and all the absurd questions of collapse and the rest...
DeBroglie-Bohm is the only item that makes sense, people are just slow to accept that locality isn't always the case.