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by jankins
3157 days ago
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Certainty is difficult. I use the approach mentioned - I maintain email accounts at 3-4 different popular providers anyway. If I do ever notice something fishy I'll send to a couple of them. Since I'm only using this for personal email, and that's at a lower volume vs. work email with different communication patterns, I think it's a little easier to detect failed sends (in other words, usually some response is expected, even if it's just "ha"/"cool"). But you're right, some might have been lost in the spam folder and never seen. |
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Uncertainty is the cost of gaining more ownership, and I don't want to downplay that. If I'm sending messages where I want to maintain as much personal ownership as possible, I use my personal mailserver and accept the risks. If I'm sending mail where I need higher certainty and don't care about ownership, I use other providers.
Another commenter said: "if you absolutely depend on the ability to send emails such that your recipients reliably get them, hosting your own email server is extremely tricky." I agree with that -- different communication has different needs/requirements, and a self-hosted mailserver gives some benefits that I really like and that you can't get any other way. I'm just saying for me and for my common uses, it doesn't feel like a constant headache + battle.