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by nojvek 3343 days ago
"But it was always, ‘My wife is a woman, she has a vagina, you have a vagina, let’s see if everything aligns.’ It’s so offensive.”

I think this is a big part of unconscious bias sexism

I'm a male so I have little idea what women have to go through but this was educating. Thanks

2 comments

I actually think that this metaphorical quote is a misrepresentation of the problem. Eariler in the paragraph it mentions that the pitch is a 'Womens Product Company'.

In which case the comment of "I'll ask my wife" may not have been prompted from the fact that the co-founder is a woman - but rather the lack of knowledge about the product area and saying something to the extent of "I'll have to do some research about this".

Granted it's a trivializing way to say it and has sexist overtones - but I think it's not the same generalization as the quote implies.

That's a good point. I think that quote also shows that some people tend to see sexism (or racism, etc.) even when there is none
If the target demographic for a startup is women, why is it sexist to talk the idea over with your wife?