[baby]

That's complete bullshit, I work for one of those company that happens to have video games around. Not everyone play, but after work, we sometimes get around and play for a couple of hours and we just have so much fun that we end up going home late. What's wrong with that?

[hiram112]

Nothing wrong with it at all.

But realize that companies do not give you these 'perks' like free food, games, laundry, etc. as a bonus. It is to keep you at work for more and more hours.

Honestly, I don't think it is a bad thing if you do enjoy this sort of thing and are young without kids, wife, etc.

The problem is that it creates the 'bro' culture that turns off anyone who isn't in the same demographic. When most of the team is staying late, bonding with COD, those that don't - the 40 year old who needs to pick up his kid, or the 25 year old woman who doesn't play XBox - tend to be excluded as time goes on.

To be completely honest, I've always thought the complaints of sexism in tech were completely bullshit.

But when I look at things as a mid 30's guy who is already seeing hints of ageism and really have no desire to stay 'till 10pm playing video games, I have to wonder if maybe I was somewhat wrong, and maybe the typical SV software environment is somewhat toxic for anyone not a 25 year old guy - females included.

[mahyarm]

Free food is the real perk that changes hours. Everything else isn't used that much or is very very company/team dependent and you have to evaluate them on a company basis.

10 companies might give laundry, video games, board/table games, free gyms and all 3 meals. How the company or team uses those things is very company dependent. Laundry service is not used that much most of the time, since you usually have to pay. It's usually just a purple tie pickup/dropoff closet.

I think the "staying late, bonding with COD" company is like the minority 'nightmare' thing that gets all the media attention, while most of them are pretty normal, does something at lunch sometimes and eats all the free meals.

[baby]

> But realize that companies do not give you these 'perks' like free food, games, laundry, etc. as a bonus. It is to keep you at work for more and more hours.

It's give and take, nothing is for free, and this deal is a pretty good one imo :)

> The problem is that it creates the 'bro' culture that turns off anyone who isn't in the same demographic. When most of the team is staying late, bonding with COD, those that don't - the 40 year old who needs to pick up his kid, or the 25 year old woman who doesn't play XBox - tend to be excluded as time goes on.

So we shouldn't bond and have fun because of these people :D?

[hiram112]

No I think you should do what you want; it certainly isn't the job of young male engineers to make sure everyone else is included in their environment. God knows that other groups were never especially inclusive to many of 'us' growing up.

[DougN7]

Absolutely nothing wrong with it. But people with families, kids that need help with homework, etc won't be able to do that often if ever. Being young very often also means having fewer commitments.

[baby]

If you can't play video games with your friend/coworkers from times to times, then your life suck, kids or not.

[Broken_Hippo]

Or you have different interests. Perhaps you don't expect to be friends with coworkers - so long as folks get along well at the office, that's enough. Perhaps you would rather have the compartmentalism. Perhaps you'd rather play at home while not wearing pants. Perhaps you'd rather spend time with a loved one, your children, and the couple of friends that you've had for years.

Perhaps you are an introvert and really need the downtime. Perhaps you are an artist and enjoy that instead. Maybe you play an instrument and get an hour of practice most days. Maybe you like theater or a good dinner in lue of a few hours of video games.

Not playing games after work isn't an indicator of someone's life sucking. It just means they have different interests or priorities in life that don't match up to spending a few hours at work playing games.

[Psygon1]

I'm not a gamer.

[baby]

Well I'd say it depends what kind of game you guys have. If it's COD like in some of the comments I can understand. But in my office we mostly play goofy party game, I sometimes invite my gf over to play with us and she manages to have fun while not being a gamer as well. Here's a list I made:

So far we've really enjoyed:

* speedrunners

* towerfall

* blazerush

fun:

* lovers in a dangerous spacetime

* overcooked

* miner warfare

* clusterpuck 99 (sucks if you're not > 4)

* hidden in plain sight

* Magicka

that were fun, but got boring fast:

* duck game

* CMYW

* trine 2

* starwhal

* Nidhogg

* Porcunipine

Meh:

* Castle Crashers

* Mount your friends

* Gangbeast

* Hammerwatch

* Screencheat

* ibb & obb