| WRT win-lose approach: It's what recent history teaches to Russia.
People kind of expected that peaceful end of the cold war is a good thing, but it turned out that USA & Western Europe won and Russia lost. And now US politics has audacity to poke in russians' faces with this "fact". It was win-lose. After that, on 2000-s, Russia sought to enter WTO, even join NATO, and streighten ties with EU. But it mostly got humiliation and shown the door. It wasn't win-win. Now, it's quire easy to learn that win-win scenarios don't work and win-lose do, and you want to be on a right side of win-lose. And I wold argue that win-win fails to perform in modern world. It's now more like lose-lose. Iraq? Syria (for all parties including Russia)? Lose-lose. Even international trade starts to show this character. But after all that said, speculating on peoples' beliefs instead of facts is always opinionated. |
Russia, from all I have read, never wanted to join NATO
https://www.quora.com/Russia-Why-has-Russia-never-joined-NAT...
https://themoscowtimes.com/articles/5-reasons-why-russia-wil...
As for criticizing Russia because it it is corrupt and authoritarian, free speech is just part of how the modern world works. I myself am very critical about the US in many ways.
You are right, a lot of the relations in the world today are win-lose. But Syria is hardly a modern democratic industrialized state. Or take the complicated case of China and Russia, which is cooperative in many ways, and hostile in others.
Putin, his whole life, has never been a win-win guy, from all I have read. Yeltsin was a mess. So I am dubious when I hear that Russia wanted to be friendly and cooperative, and the West repulsed him.
As far as the Russian people's beliefs go, I have read lots from experts on how they see the world.