[ctdonath]

Having read the intro, methinks I'll wait for a few more positive reviews before taking it further. Not sure I want to get that far into the mind of someone that crass & abusive.

Don't get me wrong. On our third date (being 5 hours apart in different countries, getting together was...difficult), my future wife asked "so what are we doing?" Having been considering the same thing, and whether to tell her unprompted, I proceeded to explain that our brief but deep discussions showed me she might be someone I'd like to spend the rest of my life with.

The subject can be well addressed without getting rude & crude immediately. Two people can "get to the point" politely.

[gernerz]

That part was extremely cringy. But I think that was intentional.