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Let's be introspective. Was the "be civil" experiment really a success? Is it really the specific words that matter, or how the words make the other person feel that matters most? I'd contrast this approach with e.g. Product Hunt's community standards, where you're expected to be inclusive, make others feel good, and try to work as a group of makers who are "all in it together" instead of constantly arguing and putting each other down. Little mention of civility of the message delivery is mentioned at all - it's all about how the message affects the other person. I know I'll get flack for saying this here, but I've found PH's approach to make far more sense and be 1000x better in practice. (By the way, last I checked, I'm still ranked-banned for pointing out YC's reversal on their stance about board members, so this comment will stay at the bottom of the page no matter how you vote. - Edit, or the comment will tie for bottom of the page, along with the other rank-banned and dead users.) |
I think it mostly has. You occasionally get the odd person who is clearly New At This™ as is a complete dick, or even a seasoned veteran who goes out of their way to ignore "being civil."
However, since I've joined I have been noticing that they are becoming fewer and farther between. Good debate comes out most comments: even if those comments are fringe or flawed at best. "All in it together" isn't conducive to extremely intelligent discussion: if I'm wrong or being a dick I want to know it and if everyone is pretending to be on my side I'll never find out. There is a nuance to breaking that kind of news and the HN community seems to be slowly working it out.