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by yeukhon 4002 days ago
I specifically said living in China as a Chinese, so to be exact here Chinese means the Chinese local with family. I don't know much the life of foreigners / immigrants and how well they integrate into the society, but usually there are

* wedding gift

* "business" expense that you did out of your pocket (take your co-workers to lunch, buying gift for your clients)

* gifts (giving red envelopes during Chinese New Year, friend / elder birthday)

* rent

* personal saving

* family support (especially supporting your parents)

* medical expense (for a lot of people they have to pay before they can see a doctor)

Here is an article http://business.sohu.com/20131210/n391561808.shtml. Many people can only afford a tiny room today in the city and this depressing phenomenon is coined "蝸居" (snail house, about 10 square feet, and sometimes less, or sharing that tiny space with two or more people), and has been televised and documented multiple times (e.g. a TV drama called 蝸居 was made a couple years ago).

If you are a blue collar working at a city far away from your hometown, you have to go back to your hometown at least once a year (during new year break), and usually it is expected that you have to get a lot of gifts from the city for your family and your neighbors (to thank your neighbors for helping your family / keeping an eye on your family in your absence).

You can almost say the Chinese culture is all about showing gratitude with gifts, this is why e-commerce is such a big deal in China (also why foreign brands like Apple can make so much money in China ;-))

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Interesting. So what is, in your opinion, the percentage of earnings an average Chinese spends on maintaining/extending his "Guanxi" and on supporting his parents/presents for relatives?

I am asking about these two specifically because they make the biggest difference between the "western" culture and the Chinese culture. The other items on your list also appear in the lives of the citizens of many European/European based countries.