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by Tistel 4006 days ago
Me too. I live in a city far from where I grew up. Good job. Lots of money. Don't know a soul.
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Do something like go joint meetup.com. If you job isn't something like brain surgeon or another essential item then it's the old adage: nobody ever wished they had spent more time at work on their death bed.
> go joint meetup.com

Not really a fan of that advice (although better than no action) - I believe it is difficult to avoid shallow connections with a shifting group of people.

I personally (A) choose to share accommodation (shared house), (B) live in a part of the city that has that community feel (not the "best" neighborhood). Now meaningful long-term connections just happen without trying (in fact it would take effort to avoid it).