[nkozyra]

That's probably true for most periods in history, but we're still within a much-receded housing economy. When I bought my house, my rent was a couple hundred bucks more and with insurance + taxes I ended up paying ~ $30 more a month for more than double the space and, of course, actual assets.

There are places where this doesn't make sense, and there are times where it absolutely doesn't make sense, but present day is a lot different. My anecdote of paying less (or slightly more) in mortgage + associated versus rent is not all that uncommon these days.

The real hidden cost, if you ask me, is the way it changes your sense of mobility.

[Happydayz]

Yes, but there is also the opportunity cost of your downpayment, the transaction costs of getting into and out of a house, and maintenance. Oh man, maintenance.

Ref - transaction costs. You have to figure it will cost you around ~8% of the value of a property to both get into and out of it. This does not include the cost of movers. With a rental your transaction costs might be $50 for the apartment application fee.

[gambiting]

I wish - I'm currently renting a house for 1200 pounds/month(so...1900 USD per month) and the agency took $1000 just to take the property off the market("admin fee" - non-returnable, doesn't go towards the deposit, it's just money down the drain really), then 1 month rent as deposit, and 1 month rent in advance. So really, I spent nearly $6k just to start renting a place.

I'm really considering a mortgage, but don't have money for the downpayment. Our mortgage payments would be actually less than what we pay for rent now.

[fluidcruft]

Rent pays maintenance costs, too it's just forcibly amortized and externalized. Higher-density housing like apartments and condos do have scale efficiencies reduce per-unit/occupant maintenance costs. But the difference between renting and buying is somewhat apples to oranges if you're comparing renting an apartment to buying a house.