[jeremya]

From my one data point of being a father of two girls (3 year old and 1 year old), I disagree. While some not insignificant percentages may line up with the generalization you've outlined, I think that parent/child relationships are more complex and nuanced than that.

In our household, I am the primary disciplinarian, but I have not sacrificed being able to play and be silly with my kids. Another commenter outlined the need for consistency. I wholeheartedly agree and believe that you can be consistent with your kids and still be silly, play and encourage healthy exploration of new challenges.