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by kemist
4026 days ago
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> The problem is that I cope with pain and hurdles differently. When people stop to rest I usually push some more. When they seek a shelter from the rain I want to ride more. When they need to chat with someone I need to read a book. I am a hyperactive introvert with a strange set of interests. I am a little different and because of that it's much harder for me to make friends. Shared suffering & growth is how you form the strongest bonds. If you're biking w/ people and they stop to rest (or b/c of rain). Time to make a choice. You can keep going, or stop with them. If you keep going, you'll grow, your legs will get stronger. If you stop, they'll grow, their legs will get stronger. But you have to keep stopping to see it happen. In time they'll stop less often. You'll love watching them get stronger, and they'll love that you were there to witness their growth. You're sharing in their suffering, even if you're not winded or uncomfortable yourself. Fast forward to the future, now you're struggling with something physically or emotionally, and one of them may stop to be by your side. They could've pushed past you but they want to be there for you. You were there for them. |
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That being said I have found a few people that may be ready to walk with me. Since I am very grateful I am willing to wait for them and help them whenever they need it.