[narrowingorbits]

> Victims have every right to hate their offenders and a just society should do everything they can to help the victims...

Yes, society should do everything it can to help the victims---to help the victims to heal. Society has no imperative to help the victims to hate.

[tomjen3]

Ah but healing requires pain be inflicted on your transgressor.

[vidarh]

I feel sad for you if that is genuinely how you feel.