[Kalium]

Last I knew - and it's been a while - you could set filters on criteria such as age to avoid getting messages from users you wanted to exclude.

But yes, the multiple choice questions are subject to the same problem.

[jaredsohn]

Here are the choices for message filtering (they updated it over the past year or so): gender, age range, whether they are located nearby, whether they are single, match %

Also, if the user pays for A-list they can filter on: how long the messages are, hide if it contains certain words, filter by attractiveness.