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by SubuSS 4042 days ago
So why don't you do the part time thing and let her chase her career dreams?
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We can't afford that at the moment for numerous reasons. Also I love what I do, she isn't married to her specific job, and she misses the baby a lot all day.

My point wasn't that I'm forcing her to make a major life decision because I prefer that for some reason. I was saying she has the ability to go part-time, she wants to spend more time with the baby, yet she is very concerned with making this change because it is a rare thing to do in medical field.

edit for s73v3r: She's already near the top of her field's salary range.

I don't know if part time is that rare a thing. My family has a couple of doctors who have the option of switching into emergency care / drop in clinic care etc. where they can decide how many hours to work. In fact their hours are way more solid than ours - they are usually done when they are done with their x hours and the pay is very very good as well. Do see if you can dig around more about the alternatives.
But if she's allowed to pursue her career ambitions, then it might be possible in the future.