[diminoten]

This is probably not a good place to discuss this particular issue.

[DanBC]

There is a frustrating mix of terrible advice and good advice. Is that why you'd recommend not getting advice here, or is there some other reason?

(I upvoted you.)

[diminoten]

Oh, absolutely -- I always worry when someone who's having emotional trouble seeks out the greater Internet for advice.

There are some very good reasons why it takes a high level of training to counsel people.

[lotsofthrows]

I mentioned this elsewhere, but I'm not taking direct action based on any comments here. Yours is an understandable concern, though.