[wrighty52]

To be blunt, it seems like you're hindering your self. You seem reluctant to take on the "new things", and work with them. Almost as if you are deliberately attempting to rebel.

Why wouldn't you go and work in an Agile environment? It's a lot less stressful I've found. Also, you say that you don't want to have to argue about using one thing over another, but realistically it's not an argument. It's a discussion about using the right tool for the job.

Just because you're a developer, doesn't mean that you can't work towards taking the other jobs - there are a lot of people that take the change - if they're willing to.

In my opinion, you just need to suck it up and be open to learning new things, and new technologies.