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by fasteo 4105 days ago
>> preventing me from moving on mentally

You must absolutely close this forever.

>> don't need the money

Go for the legal action. Don“t think of it as revenge, for it is not. Even if you end up losing, you definitely win.

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I'm genuinely curious? Why do you think a loss legally, which could be financially and mentally extremely challenging, would be a win?
He seems to have a mental blockage with this situation. Some years later and he still needs to write about it and ask for advice. He is probably taking this as an excuse for others unrelated things happening in his life (this is very subjective, but I was in a somehow similar situation years ago)

A legal action is just a way to put a definitive end to all this. The outcome is not important; he will feel liberated, even if he loses.