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by dijit 4111 days ago
interestingly this might be because girls like to retain some semblance of youth.

anecdotally my girlfriend (Russian if that makes any difference) absolutely hates when I refer to her as a young woman, or use the word "woman" at all. She much prefers to be referred to as a girl.

I have no issues with being called a man.. not saying that this pattern is everywhere but it's very apparent with her and her family.

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"girls like to retain some semblance of youth"

No critical thought here is necessary, I suppose? It just... so happens that women "like" to look youthful? Maybe it's biological? Just the natural order of things? I am reminded of the ads from the National Geographic I own from 1940.

Yet lots of folks say "Mr. Smith? That sounds like my Dad! Call me John!" Which is much the same thing?
but "Mister" is not "Man" even my girlfriend doesn't mind being called "Miss" or "Ms", she might take exception to "Misses".. but I don't think anybody assumes at her age anyway.